If worries about livelihood overwhelm the mind:

If worries about livelihood overwhelm the mind:

    But look at the birds of the sky - they do not know where they will get their food - They only know that they have to run, trusting in Almighty - You too run, trusting in Almighty - it is fully certain that you will get sustenance.

The vastness of the sky is very deep. We must take sustenance or food to save our lives.

    Our purpose will be to work, not to give us sustenance - Almighty will give it to us.

It is better not to worry about sustenance - because birds do not have any resources or anyone prepares a source, they also get food, they just tries - whoever is created in the way they are, they will try in that way - the Almighty will provide sustenance.

    We find courage and self-confidence in seeing birds - because birds start their journey at dawn but do not know where their food is today or where they will find it - but in the evening they return home with a full stomach.

They don't even know where the food was.

    We too must keep in mind the activities of the previous movements of those birds.

We must keep trying - we must trust in Almighty - there is no doubt that Almighty will provide sustenance for everyone.

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You have to pull yourself together - no one will come to you for support...

    You have to pull yourself together - no one will come to you for support - even if someone does come, they will either break you - or make you weak:

There is no weakness in being dependent on others. You have to trust yourself, do your own work - even after a hundred hardships or obstacles.

    No one will come forward in your or my trouble - even if they come, they will take advantage and destroy your confidence.

When you yourself face problems, you cannot be disappointed or broken - you have to build up extraordinary strength within your mind - you have to control yourself with the power of insides without waiting for anyone - you have to be prepared and move forward in life.

    Our lives are full of problems - no one will come to solve us, no one will come to solve us - it is foolish to hope.

Maybe you're waiting for someone to help, but it won't happen - no one will come, even if they come in the name of help and may cause more damage.

    It may seem like someone is being helpful - their intentions here may not be good.

Many times they can use you for their own interests - that's why self-reliance is a big promise - because reality is very difficult. It is foolish to seek help or it is foolish to wait.

    You should always give importance to your own performance.

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The life of an empty person is like football - everyone kicks whenever they get the chance:-

 

The life of an empty person is like football - everyone kicks whenever they get the chance:-

    To survive in society, money is necessary - everyone in society has some purpose or goal. There are very few people without goals - but the thing is, not everyone can reach the goal - that's when life becomes meaningless or empty.

And society is not prepared for such people, so everyone is affected or hurt by this.

    This society is not about giving and taking, it's only about taking, which is why society prefers those who can give to society - whether it's society or family.

Football is used here in a literal sense, as in, a football is made just for kicking - one that only hurts and makes someone win.

    So people without money are like this football - they only get hurt.

Therefore, such people are always victims of discrimination in society.

    If society wanted to or if the family wanted to, they could have behaved or used the opposite way - it would not have effect the family or society - but it doesn't happen or don’t do.

People without money are immersed in despair about their lives and families. On top of this, the impact of society and family on them reveals their helplessness, and when they cannot protect themselves, they are constantly oppressed by others.

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Society will always criticize you, but will never beside with you:-

 

Society will always criticize you, but will never beside with you:-

    This society does not give us any concessions. We are hopeful and expect help, cooperation, support, etc. from the beginning of our birth to the end.

Society may or may not praise you if you do something good - it depends on your position.

    But when there is a wrong or an unintentional mistake, criticism begins - from which no one is spared and which can even be felt in a room - and does not give anyone any chance to correct it.

As social beings, we often push ourselves too far or feel too much pressure while trying to fulfill the needs and desires of society - not so much for ourselves, but for society.

    And when people fail to meet social needs and expectations, society is solely responsible for the loneliness, isolation, and self-isolation that needs, seeking opportunities.

We can't really change it - so we have no alternate to away.

    Loneliness is actually not pleasant - but it is reality.

At some point, people start criticizing themselves and eventually belittling their own hard work. Society could have reform by and rebuilt them, but that doesn't happen anymore or doesn't do.

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The incompetent speak down to people - the competent speak with logic

 

The incompetent speak down to people - the competent speak with logic:

    Choosing the right people in the right places in life is a great art. In our society, many times the incompetent get responsibilities, respect or leadership - this is where the trouble of happens.

This not only harms work - it has a negative impact on everything in society.

    We are all human, but the difference between realize is in our thoughts, words, and wisdom.

In this society, everyone has to live together - it cannot be thought of as the opposite. The problem arises when people look at or speak in a way that belittles or insults them, who they are and who am I.

    Above all, where incompetent people exist, you must be prepared for your respect and personality to be lowered in many areas or for you to feel humiliated.

In our society, there will be obstacles, rights, wants, and needs, and we are dependent on each other for many things, and everyone needs everyone in society.

    As a result, you will not get or give satisfactory results in all matters in this continuous life.

You will be considered small or unworthy by the incompetent - and those who are worthy will give you solutions with logic, intelligence and prudence - which you desire.

    Therefore, you cannot change the character of an incompetent person by any of their actions - it is better to away them.

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There are many colors, and people have many variations:

 

There are many colors, and people have many variations:

    Our human life is full of variations. We see that even though we are born into the same family - no one is similar to the other - this is the difference.

We change the color of our minds by understanding the time and place. We are created on the basis of a word in the world, such as human beings. Even though we are human, each person has a different perspective, and almost no one is similar to the other.

    In our practical life, we do not use the word color in a single sense, but rather with its connotations, such as black and green.

In continuation of this, it is said that there are many colors of color. In the fable, it is called color, but to understand which color is which in the correct sense, its exact color must be known.

    So, in a title, we are all human. But to recognize them, many more adjectives have to be given, such as black, tall, white, or this character, or that character, otherwise we will not be able to recognize their true nature.

The only difference is that the internal diversity is not easily perceived. Because different people have different differences, here it can be said more deeply that a person has many differences; this is a matter of more concern.

    It becomes difficult to become a complete family. Because of this diversity, it is very difficult to get to know people.

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Compassion is a strange thing....

Compassion is a strange thing. 

    It is an ideal part of this world. Compassion exists in everyone, some awaken it – others keep it dormant.

Those who rise are, however, soft-hearted people. They value Compassion the most. On the contrary, the scale of suffering is also high. But the point is that there must be compassion, it is a feeling or feeling in our life that we want to have.

    Compassion is often uncontrollable or out of control - it often moves at its own path.

You have to express your Compassion depending on the position of time and place, compassion is not desirable in all cases, compassion will remain in life, and it is the need of life. Compassion should not be avoided, but should be applied in the right place.

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Finally, even if no one is beside, "Mother" will always be there: -

Finally, even if no one is beside, "Mother" will always be there: -

    The word "Mother" is not just a call - it is a feeling, a sure breath of fresh air.

We lose many things in our lives, we gain many things, but the love of a mother is the best of all.

    There is only one place where we can express all the desires of our life, and that is "mother".

Everything good in our lives comes from our mothers. When we sail the ship of life, we meet many people - we talk - we work together - at the end of the day, everyone exists in a give and take. But only "mother" only gives, mother does not take.

    When we are sad, we looking forwards for many things to find peace or to feel better, but a little talk or a caress from a mother is the ultimate peace.

A mother is someone who keeps thousands of sorrows and pains inside and thinks only about you and me.

    We love to see the moon and take in its beauty - the moon soothes us with its light - but the truth is that there is no moon that can compare to Mother.

Mother is the best doctor without any degree - there are no words to express the joy and salvation that comes from a little prayer or word. "Mother" means a beautiful explanation, whether it is mine or yours.

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Patience is a vehicle that never falters:

Patience is a vehicle that never falters:

    Patience or waiting, whoever has the patience to wait will one day have his demand fulfilled.

All the good things in our lives come very slowly. So it can be said that patience and hard work, like magic, make obstacles and dangers disappear.

    Our universal truth is that the results of patience are sweet. He who can be patient - he can achieve what he wants.

Patience is an invisible power - and without patience or less, even small problems become as big as mountains.

    There will always be problems, we live in a world full of problems or have a long history of problems.

Problems cannot be overcome or are not possible - and this patience is the secret strength that does not allow you to be defeated prematurely.

    Patience is completely under your control. The one who can control it is successful. The one who has a lot of patience does not get into trouble even if his intelligence is somewhat lacking.

Patience is a silent weapon that is deeper than words and more effective than actions.

    Patience enhances your personality - brings success - brings peace to society - so patience is a vehicle that never falters.

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When circumstances dance, acquaintances play the drums:

When circumstances dance, acquaintances play the drums:

We are strange people - we cry when we see drama and laugh when we see reality.

They will envy your success and applaud your sorrow - this has become a culture created by the current civilization.

There are always ups and downs in our lives and this is a universal truth. You cannot change it even if you want to.

This society and life will all go on according to its own rules, the monsoon will come and I will not be able to enjoy the sunshine. This time may not be for me. We must remember that this is not the last monsoon or the last sunshine - the next one may be suitable for me and you.

It may be a bad time for you and me, but it doesn't mean that better times won't come.

The situation may not be in my favor right now - that's why people around me make fun of me. This situation is not my creat or my fault.

So I accepted what was normal, but only those I knew didn't understand - at that time they made fun of me and hated me.

When circumstances are against me and acquaintances are no longer in my favor - this is the reality.

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Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

 

Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

    Humans are very mysterious - but the most dangerous thing is selfishness.

We prefer a simple life, where there should be altruism-sympathy-relinquishment, etc. These are the symbols of social peace.

    There are many people in this society who only think about themselves or take advantage of opportunities.

Happiness and problems coexist in our lives - one cannot be expected without the other. This is the secret of the world.

    Our traditional rule is – to do good and to receive good.

Some people are very selfish. Even if you make place in your heart, they will carefully break your heart – just because of their own interests.

    If the person you teach to smile, even in the face of adversity, take away your smile - that is the greatest selfishness.

A selfish person does not change anything about himself, he only changes his shell according to the environment - he forgets the benefits of others.

    Maybe the person we consider our own, but doesn't need us, I've never realized or even noticed this, but whenever they are cut off from me, I suffer a great loss - that's selfishness.

Selfish people never improve - they only change their appearance.

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It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:-

It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:

    The most valuable respect of a person is self-respect. It is the same in all environments, in society and in the world.

    To know your life, an environment of this kind must be created - otherwise, you cannot create yourself by removing yourself.

    Pain is a silent killer that destroys itself, so you have to remove yourself before the suffering increases further.

    Sometimes you can hide your pain and speak the truth with a smile - but it doesn't last long - you have to move on at some point - so the sooner you can move on, the better.

    It is very difficult to understand the value of people behind masks, so one should not stay or permanently move to places where masked people exist.

    When or if he neglects you, he will feel like a burden to you - that's when you need to away yourself.

    Such an environment will continue until your death - there is no number of these environmental situations or will they end here - so you have to be extremely careful about yourself.

    You have to away yourself before you become a target of neglect.

    So don't knock on the door that keeps closing in your face.

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What a person will one day pay with death.

What a person will one day pay with death:

    The eternal truth is that death is inevitable. Death is inevitable - in this short life of ours, there is a competition to dream in various colors, to weave dreams, and to fulfill dreams.

    Although death is a very unpleasant thing - this is inevitable,

    As time goes by, I wonder why death seems to be the most beloved. We write and learn so much, but death is all learning.

    We say that our home, our office, our work, all of them are surrender to death.

    One day is enough for everything in life - which is the day of death.

    Whatever happens in this life - no matter how happy or sad - everything awaits for a day.

    Wherever we are, death will reach us and every persons being will taste death.

    No matter how great we become in life or how much sorrow we experience, we do not have to bear it for long because death pays for everything.

    But the truth is that we must find solace in death. Our life journey cannot begin again, it ends with death.

    No matter which pathway we take - no matter what environment we place ourselves in, death will separate us from everything - that which is permanent.

    Every feeling, every moment will never return - in the treasure trove of life, perhaps nothing will remain except death.

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People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

    Only humans are the most changeable in this world. Humans can change themselves very quickly, among all the animals; humans are the only ones who have the ability to understand good things first.

    Among all the things in the world that create attraction among people, the first is human behavior, which cannot be compared to any value.

    Behavior is the root of all fundamental changes. Many adverse environments can be overcome with behavior. This behavior may be learned primarily from family, society or educational institutions. However, family is better.

    It is possible to change the world with good behavior. Many impossible tasks can be accomplished with good behavior.

    On the other hand, due to the prevailing bad behavior, many easy tasks or even very possible tasks are not done.

    Maybe someone thinks you or I are not in a good or desirable position to others mind- but this can only be changed through behavior.

    Wherever we are, we can only bring salvation or control our situation from all dangers and calamities by good behavior.

Behavior is our identity-change-limited seeking-receiving.

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The greater the demand, the greater.....

The greater the demand, the greater the disappointment:

    There is no limit to what we want, the more we get in human life, the more we want.

    One thing is certain, there is no limit to this desire or the number of people who have been able to stop this desire is very low.

    Over time, the scope of our demands or expectations increases greatly - either because of sheer demand or because of position.

    At one time, it seemed that the desire for demand might stop here - but instead of stopping, it only increased.

    This calculation of our wants and needs is not new, it has been going on for ages. On the contrary, because of this demand, people's desire to live may have increased. Or, perhaps, the desire to live may have decreased at some point.

    The difference is that words or actions like frustration, worry, and instability are created by needs or expectations. The higher your expectations, the greater the frustration.

    The point is, there must be needs and expectations, but they must be in moderation and as little as possible or limited.

    If you cannot restrain yourself in this position, only disappointment will occur. Therefore, the less expectations, the less disappointment.

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