Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

 

Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

    Humans are very mysterious - but the most dangerous thing is selfishness.

We prefer a simple life, where there should be altruism-sympathy-relinquishment, etc. These are the symbols of social peace.

    There are many people in this society who only think about themselves or take advantage of opportunities.

Happiness and problems coexist in our lives - one cannot be expected without the other. This is the secret of the world.

    Our traditional rule is – to do good and to receive good.

Some people are very selfish. Even if you make place in your heart, they will carefully break your heart – just because of their own interests.

    If the person you teach to smile, even in the face of adversity, take away your smile - that is the greatest selfishness.

A selfish person does not change anything about himself, he only changes his shell according to the environment - he forgets the benefits of others.

    Maybe the person we consider our own, but doesn't need us, I've never realized or even noticed this, but whenever they are cut off from me, I suffer a great loss - that's selfishness.

Selfish people never improve - they only change their appearance.

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It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:-

It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:

    The most valuable respect of a person is self-respect. It is the same in all environments, in society and in the world.

    To know your life, an environment of this kind must be created - otherwise, you cannot create yourself by removing yourself.

    Pain is a silent killer that destroys itself, so you have to remove yourself before the suffering increases further.

    Sometimes you can hide your pain and speak the truth with a smile - but it doesn't last long - you have to move on at some point - so the sooner you can move on, the better.

    It is very difficult to understand the value of people behind masks, so one should not stay or permanently move to places where masked people exist.

    When or if he neglects you, he will feel like a burden to you - that's when you need to away yourself.

    Such an environment will continue until your death - there is no number of these environmental situations or will they end here - so you have to be extremely careful about yourself.

    You have to away yourself before you become a target of neglect.

    So don't knock on the door that keeps closing in your face.

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What a person will one day pay with death.

What a person will one day pay with death:

    The eternal truth is that death is inevitable. Death is inevitable - in this short life of ours, there is a competition to dream in various colors, to weave dreams, and to fulfill dreams.

    Although death is a very unpleasant thing - this is inevitable,

    As time goes by, I wonder why death seems to be the most beloved. We write and learn so much, but death is all learning.

    We say that our home, our office, our work, all of them are surrender to death.

    One day is enough for everything in life - which is the day of death.

    Whatever happens in this life - no matter how happy or sad - everything awaits for a day.

    Wherever we are, death will reach us and every persons being will taste death.

    No matter how great we become in life or how much sorrow we experience, we do not have to bear it for long because death pays for everything.

    But the truth is that we must find solace in death. Our life journey cannot begin again, it ends with death.

    No matter which pathway we take - no matter what environment we place ourselves in, death will separate us from everything - that which is permanent.

    Every feeling, every moment will never return - in the treasure trove of life, perhaps nothing will remain except death.

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People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

    Only humans are the most changeable in this world. Humans can change themselves very quickly, among all the animals; humans are the only ones who have the ability to understand good things first.

    Among all the things in the world that create attraction among people, the first is human behavior, which cannot be compared to any value.

    Behavior is the root of all fundamental changes. Many adverse environments can be overcome with behavior. This behavior may be learned primarily from family, society or educational institutions. However, family is better.

    It is possible to change the world with good behavior. Many impossible tasks can be accomplished with good behavior.

    On the other hand, due to the prevailing bad behavior, many easy tasks or even very possible tasks are not done.

    Maybe someone thinks you or I are not in a good or desirable position to others mind- but this can only be changed through behavior.

    Wherever we are, we can only bring salvation or control our situation from all dangers and calamities by good behavior.

Behavior is our identity-change-limited seeking-receiving.

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The greater the demand, the greater.....

The greater the demand, the greater the disappointment:

    There is no limit to what we want, the more we get in human life, the more we want.

    One thing is certain, there is no limit to this desire or the number of people who have been able to stop this desire is very low.

    Over time, the scope of our demands or expectations increases greatly - either because of sheer demand or because of position.

    At one time, it seemed that the desire for demand might stop here - but instead of stopping, it only increased.

    This calculation of our wants and needs is not new, it has been going on for ages. On the contrary, because of this demand, people's desire to live may have increased. Or, perhaps, the desire to live may have decreased at some point.

    The difference is that words or actions like frustration, worry, and instability are created by needs or expectations. The higher your expectations, the greater the frustration.

    The point is, there must be needs and expectations, but they must be in moderation and as little as possible or limited.

    If you cannot restrain yourself in this position, only disappointment will occur. Therefore, the less expectations, the less disappointment.

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Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the.......

 

Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the pressure of circumstances:-

    But it is very difficult to control the circumstances all the time. We all want a cheerful life and to be good to everyone. This is the first of a thousand demands. Everyone wants their happiness to be permanent.

    But disruption occurs when this joy is completely silenced or lost. The situation that is not to be desired is-a bad situation.

    Everyone wants or is ready for a better situation. Everyone wants the moon to always be with them and to go through life weaving garlands.

    We are responsible for our family's-responsibility and efforts. This family responsibility and effort situation sometimes robs us of our happiness.

    No matter the situation, even the person who wants to be happy becomes silent at some point. It seems that being silent is the safest or the best position to take a deep breath.

    Even a person who used to be very cheerful can become silent at some point due to unwanted pressure, actions, violence, slander, etc.

    And once it's silent, it becomes permanent. It never comes back cheerfully or wants to come back.

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To make your own identity, it is essential to away..........

To make your own identity, it is essential to away out from the crowd: 

    Who doesn't want to develop themselves? Everyone wants their own position and level of upstairs. The point here is that the disagreements are very high, not everyone will want what's good for me or you - or will not be able to accept what's good of us. This is a social characteristic.

    You will see that even if you share your troubles or learn something, some will be troubled or consider you a rival.

    This will trouble your hard work or education, which will definitely trouble your progress and will trouble you from reaching your destination.

    Everyone in this world desires or hopes for an identity or position of their own. That is why there is so much hard work and suffering, running from here to there or standing in one position, twist oneself with thousands of dreams.

But the point is – how to avoid or remove obstacles in the way. The more obstacles, the more uncertain the progress, and the opposite also exists.

While preparing yourself, you have to be strong within yourself. You have to avoid all crowds.

It is said that self-improvement means family improvement, which is why it is essential to creat out from the crowd in order to make your own identity 💗 !

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Acceptability - Vs. - Competence

 Acceptability - Vs - Competence

Competences you can grip with some time or it is very much under your control. But Acceptability is not just a word it is hard to achieve or can be said to be a whole lots of luck.

A competence is the product of effort - competence is possible if you start with a destination. Competence can benefit you or remain stuck.

But Acceptability is not a product of effort or a limitation of try/action - it is a result of the whole structure or the appearance or appearance of the result of everything in life. The complex it is to achieve, the simple it is to get lost in behavior.

Fear of loss of competence is very rare and it is not reduced or lost but variable. The competence you have is dependent on social demand, the less demand-the less the range of competence.

And acceptability is not a social demand—it is a result of life. Many highly competence people do not get acceptability - on the other hand, there is no acceptability person who does not have competence. All acceptability persons have Competence – guaranteed!

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Those who can do without me.......

Those who can do without me - I can do without them.

We are social creatures, so we need each other in everything. In society, everyone has to move together, return, and settle down in social or family activities and complement each other.

Society is not created alone, it is created through the combined efforts of people. Similarly, in a family, everyone needs to be connected to each other. Since we cannot or cannot live alone, it is impossible.

In society, each person's thoughts and functions are different - no one is the same as everyone else - but the thing about similarity is that everyone needs everyone else. This is our traditional rule. There is no way to go outside this rule.

We find that if we want to live together, we have to tolerate small faults and make concessions.

Objections arise when the willingness to make concessions decreases or reduce - we find that even in small matters, we ruin the relationship or stop moving forward.

Now the thing is, I will give concessions but no one will give concessions to me. This is not tolerable - so I have to go beyond my satisfaction and say, "I will continue to do without those who can do without me."

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Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but............

Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but yet years pass.

    Our life is full of histories. Different people create different histories. Each person's histories are different. Our knowledge or thinking, due to their nature, cannot accept bad things or bad situations.

    And whenever we fall into such a situation, time becomes a matter of great measure.

    Our love - love is of different kinds in different situations. Some things or loves seem to be impossible to live without or cannot be lived without.

    Such thoughts make it seem like time will not pass without him.

    But after he leaves, years pass by without us even realizing it. So it is true that nothing in this world is permanent - neither illusion nor wealth.

    We sometimes feel like it's impossible to live a single moment without him - but time and circumstances never stand still. As you give time to circumstances, the previous - impossible - thing can no longer remain in your mind or you can't remain fixed in the previous thought.

    Life is very strange, whatever you think, time takes it away, to new times - to new thoughts.

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Everything changes with age, I used to be stubborn, now I....

 

👽Everything changes with age, I used to be stubborn, now I am patient.

    𐑱Age is like that makes you understand reality, those who once gave knowledge now expect me to give knowledge or what kind of knowledge I have.

    📏Our lives are bound by a frame of age, here time will tell how much you or have grown or what my role will be now.

    🌅What I used to insist on when I was minor, now others insist on me, this is the study of age. From the frame of our age, has to reach the role of severs time in several part.

    Å_At once time I wanted from others, now others want from me - because all ages change. When what has to be done is not bearable, you will fall into the trap of being neglected or ignorant.

    🎯As people grow older, their desires, demands, rights, speech, etc. all have to change. This is fate or traditional rules and has to be accepted, there is no chance to stand against it or even to make a story, its inherent quality is patience which gives perfection to a person.

   🔖That's why it is said that I used to be stubborn, but now I am patient. Humans are very strange, the same body-mind-name, just a lot of changes due to time.

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The fewer the demands, the more beautiful ......

The fewer the demands, the more beautiful life becomes: 

    🏩We love what is beautiful or good, but we have very little known of how this beauty will continue.

    🪡The truth here is that the less your and my needs are, the more beautiful or organized life will be.

    🚢Supply associated with demand increases for this frustration, and at the same time, the beauty of it starts to lose its form.

   💓 We accept the idea of ​​beauty, but we are not really making attention to how this beauty will continue.

    💜💘Just as the creation of needs has been happening since the beginning of the world, so has the emergence or arrival of beauty. Beauty takes on a permanent form or position only when your needs are specific.

    💌Demand is a basic element that will always be present in human life. But the question is, how successfully has demand been controlled?

    ❤You-I will increase the demand and make it beautiful and desirable-it is somewhat impossible.

    💍One complements the other. When one increases, the other decreases.

    💕This need or relationship of beauty with your thoughts.

    ⏩⏪If you can control yourself up to a certain point, beauty will like you - beauty will be come to you.

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Can you tell me why people lose.....? ......

 

Can you tell me why people lose? - Carelessly.

    💕Every person in the world wants to be loved by their loved ones. There is no end to demand in our lives. Every person has their own pathway - this demand. And people like to live-care well or like to be loved.

    🂶We basically do not give importance to the things or people that we find easily or do not want to give importance to them.

    🍹At the beginning of life, we want to be with real people or have them as friends. It is certain that life remains incomplete without friends-friendship or relationship.

    ⏩Just as a chapter of life cannot be started again once it ends, a friendship cannot be started again fully once it ends or has ended. This is a fact of life.

    👌We often find someone with great difficulty - or we find them. After getting it right, it seems that there is no more obligations or consequence in the measure or matter - the matter is not like that -No matter how hard you try to find someone, you need to maintain a consistent relationship with them by doing certain things regularly - to maintain the relationship.

    🚠But we lose it through-carelessness. Care is not that difficult, but due to losing focus or take care-carelessness comes. So we can say that people lose their loved ones or closed ones through-carelessness.

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