Finally, even if no one is beside, "Mother" will always be there: -

Finally, even if no one is beside, "Mother" will always be there: -

    The word "Mother" is not just a call - it is a feeling, a sure breath of fresh air.

We lose many things in our lives, we gain many things, but the love of a mother is the best of all.

    There is only one place where we can express all the desires of our life, and that is "mother".

Everything good in our lives comes from our mothers. When we sail the ship of life, we meet many people - we talk - we work together - at the end of the day, everyone exists in a give and take. But only "mother" only gives, mother does not take.

    When we are sad, we looking forwards for many things to find peace or to feel better, but a little talk or a caress from a mother is the ultimate peace.

A mother is someone who keeps thousands of sorrows and pains inside and thinks only about you and me.

    We love to see the moon and take in its beauty - the moon soothes us with its light - but the truth is that there is no moon that can compare to Mother.

Mother is the best doctor without any degree - there are no words to express the joy and salvation that comes from a little prayer or word. "Mother" means a beautiful explanation, whether it is mine or yours.

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Patience is a vehicle that never falters:

Patience is a vehicle that never falters:

    Patience or waiting, whoever has the patience to wait will one day have his demand fulfilled.

All the good things in our lives come very slowly. So it can be said that patience and hard work, like magic, make obstacles and dangers disappear.

    Our universal truth is that the results of patience are sweet. He who can be patient - he can achieve what he wants.

Patience is an invisible power - and without patience or less, even small problems become as big as mountains.

    There will always be problems, we live in a world full of problems or have a long history of problems.

Problems cannot be overcome or are not possible - and this patience is the secret strength that does not allow you to be defeated prematurely.

    Patience is completely under your control. The one who can control it is successful. The one who has a lot of patience does not get into trouble even if his intelligence is somewhat lacking.

Patience is a silent weapon that is deeper than words and more effective than actions.

    Patience enhances your personality - brings success - brings peace to society - so patience is a vehicle that never falters.

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When circumstances dance, acquaintances play the drums:

When circumstances dance, acquaintances play the drums:

We are strange people - we cry when we see drama and laugh when we see reality.

They will envy your success and applaud your sorrow - this has become a culture created by the current civilization.

There are always ups and downs in our lives and this is a universal truth. You cannot change it even if you want to.

This society and life will all go on according to its own rules, the monsoon will come and I will not be able to enjoy the sunshine. This time may not be for me. We must remember that this is not the last monsoon or the last sunshine - the next one may be suitable for me and you.

It may be a bad time for you and me, but it doesn't mean that better times won't come.

The situation may not be in my favor right now - that's why people around me make fun of me. This situation is not my creat or my fault.

So I accepted what was normal, but only those I knew didn't understand - at that time they made fun of me and hated me.

When circumstances are against me and acquaintances are no longer in my favor - this is the reality.

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Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

 

Those who pursue selfish never improve - they only change their shell according to their needs:

    Humans are very mysterious - but the most dangerous thing is selfishness.

We prefer a simple life, where there should be altruism-sympathy-relinquishment, etc. These are the symbols of social peace.

    There are many people in this society who only think about themselves or take advantage of opportunities.

Happiness and problems coexist in our lives - one cannot be expected without the other. This is the secret of the world.

    Our traditional rule is – to do good and to receive good.

Some people are very selfish. Even if you make place in your heart, they will carefully break your heart – just because of their own interests.

    If the person you teach to smile, even in the face of adversity, take away your smile - that is the greatest selfishness.

A selfish person does not change anything about himself, he only changes his shell according to the environment - he forgets the benefits of others.

    Maybe the person we consider our own, but doesn't need us, I've never realized or even noticed this, but whenever they are cut off from me, I suffer a great loss - that's selfishness.

Selfish people never improve - they only change their appearance.

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It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:-

It is better to away yourself from places where you have no value, even if it is difficult:

    The most valuable respect of a person is self-respect. It is the same in all environments, in society and in the world.

    To know your life, an environment of this kind must be created - otherwise, you cannot create yourself by removing yourself.

    Pain is a silent killer that destroys itself, so you have to remove yourself before the suffering increases further.

    Sometimes you can hide your pain and speak the truth with a smile - but it doesn't last long - you have to move on at some point - so the sooner you can move on, the better.

    It is very difficult to understand the value of people behind masks, so one should not stay or permanently move to places where masked people exist.

    When or if he neglects you, he will feel like a burden to you - that's when you need to away yourself.

    Such an environment will continue until your death - there is no number of these environmental situations or will they end here - so you have to be extremely careful about yourself.

    You have to away yourself before you become a target of neglect.

    So don't knock on the door that keeps closing in your face.

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What a person will one day pay with death.

What a person will one day pay with death:

    The eternal truth is that death is inevitable. Death is inevitable - in this short life of ours, there is a competition to dream in various colors, to weave dreams, and to fulfill dreams.

    Although death is a very unpleasant thing - this is inevitable,

    As time goes by, I wonder why death seems to be the most beloved. We write and learn so much, but death is all learning.

    We say that our home, our office, our work, all of them are surrender to death.

    One day is enough for everything in life - which is the day of death.

    Whatever happens in this life - no matter how happy or sad - everything awaits for a day.

    Wherever we are, death will reach us and every persons being will taste death.

    No matter how great we become in life or how much sorrow we experience, we do not have to bear it for long because death pays for everything.

    But the truth is that we must find solace in death. Our life journey cannot begin again, it ends with death.

    No matter which pathway we take - no matter what environment we place ourselves in, death will separate us from everything - that which is permanent.

    Every feeling, every moment will never return - in the treasure trove of life, perhaps nothing will remain except death.

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People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

People's behavior changes their position in our minds.

    Only humans are the most changeable in this world. Humans can change themselves very quickly, among all the animals; humans are the only ones who have the ability to understand good things first.

    Among all the things in the world that create attraction among people, the first is human behavior, which cannot be compared to any value.

    Behavior is the root of all fundamental changes. Many adverse environments can be overcome with behavior. This behavior may be learned primarily from family, society or educational institutions. However, family is better.

    It is possible to change the world with good behavior. Many impossible tasks can be accomplished with good behavior.

    On the other hand, due to the prevailing bad behavior, many easy tasks or even very possible tasks are not done.

    Maybe someone thinks you or I are not in a good or desirable position to others mind- but this can only be changed through behavior.

    Wherever we are, we can only bring salvation or control our situation from all dangers and calamities by good behavior.

Behavior is our identity-change-limited seeking-receiving.

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The greater the demand, the greater.....

The greater the demand, the greater the disappointment:

    There is no limit to what we want, the more we get in human life, the more we want.

    One thing is certain, there is no limit to this desire or the number of people who have been able to stop this desire is very low.

    Over time, the scope of our demands or expectations increases greatly - either because of sheer demand or because of position.

    At one time, it seemed that the desire for demand might stop here - but instead of stopping, it only increased.

    This calculation of our wants and needs is not new, it has been going on for ages. On the contrary, because of this demand, people's desire to live may have increased. Or, perhaps, the desire to live may have decreased at some point.

    The difference is that words or actions like frustration, worry, and instability are created by needs or expectations. The higher your expectations, the greater the frustration.

    The point is, there must be needs and expectations, but they must be in moderation and as little as possible or limited.

    If you cannot restrain yourself in this position, only disappointment will occur. Therefore, the less expectations, the less disappointment.

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Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the.......

 

Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the pressure of circumstances:-

    But it is very difficult to control the circumstances all the time. We all want a cheerful life and to be good to everyone. This is the first of a thousand demands. Everyone wants their happiness to be permanent.

    But disruption occurs when this joy is completely silenced or lost. The situation that is not to be desired is-a bad situation.

    Everyone wants or is ready for a better situation. Everyone wants the moon to always be with them and to go through life weaving garlands.

    We are responsible for our family's-responsibility and efforts. This family responsibility and effort situation sometimes robs us of our happiness.

    No matter the situation, even the person who wants to be happy becomes silent at some point. It seems that being silent is the safest or the best position to take a deep breath.

    Even a person who used to be very cheerful can become silent at some point due to unwanted pressure, actions, violence, slander, etc.

    And once it's silent, it becomes permanent. It never comes back cheerfully or wants to come back.

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To make your own identity, it is essential to away..........

To make your own identity, it is essential to away out from the crowd: 

    Who doesn't want to develop themselves? Everyone wants their own position and level of upstairs. The point here is that the disagreements are very high, not everyone will want what's good for me or you - or will not be able to accept what's good of us. This is a social characteristic.

    You will see that even if you share your troubles or learn something, some will be troubled or consider you a rival.

    This will trouble your hard work or education, which will definitely trouble your progress and will trouble you from reaching your destination.

    Everyone in this world desires or hopes for an identity or position of their own. That is why there is so much hard work and suffering, running from here to there or standing in one position, twist oneself with thousands of dreams.

But the point is – how to avoid or remove obstacles in the way. The more obstacles, the more uncertain the progress, and the opposite also exists.

While preparing yourself, you have to be strong within yourself. You have to avoid all crowds.

It is said that self-improvement means family improvement, which is why it is essential to creat out from the crowd in order to make your own identity 💗 !

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Acceptability - Vs. - Competence

 Acceptability - Vs - Competence

Competences you can grip with some time or it is very much under your control. But Acceptability is not just a word it is hard to achieve or can be said to be a whole lots of luck.

A competence is the product of effort - competence is possible if you start with a destination. Competence can benefit you or remain stuck.

But Acceptability is not a product of effort or a limitation of try/action - it is a result of the whole structure or the appearance or appearance of the result of everything in life. The complex it is to achieve, the simple it is to get lost in behavior.

Fear of loss of competence is very rare and it is not reduced or lost but variable. The competence you have is dependent on social demand, the less demand-the less the range of competence.

And acceptability is not a social demand—it is a result of life. Many highly competence people do not get acceptability - on the other hand, there is no acceptability person who does not have competence. All acceptability persons have Competence – guaranteed!

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Those who can do without me.......

Those who can do without me - I can do without them.

We are social creatures, so we need each other in everything. In society, everyone has to move together, return, and settle down in social or family activities and complement each other.

Society is not created alone, it is created through the combined efforts of people. Similarly, in a family, everyone needs to be connected to each other. Since we cannot or cannot live alone, it is impossible.

In society, each person's thoughts and functions are different - no one is the same as everyone else - but the thing about similarity is that everyone needs everyone else. This is our traditional rule. There is no way to go outside this rule.

We find that if we want to live together, we have to tolerate small faults and make concessions.

Objections arise when the willingness to make concessions decreases or reduce - we find that even in small matters, we ruin the relationship or stop moving forward.

Now the thing is, I will give concessions but no one will give concessions to me. This is not tolerable - so I have to go beyond my satisfaction and say, "I will continue to do without those who can do without me."

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Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but............

Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but yet years pass.

    Our life is full of histories. Different people create different histories. Each person's histories are different. Our knowledge or thinking, due to their nature, cannot accept bad things or bad situations.

    And whenever we fall into such a situation, time becomes a matter of great measure.

    Our love - love is of different kinds in different situations. Some things or loves seem to be impossible to live without or cannot be lived without.

    Such thoughts make it seem like time will not pass without him.

    But after he leaves, years pass by without us even realizing it. So it is true that nothing in this world is permanent - neither illusion nor wealth.

    We sometimes feel like it's impossible to live a single moment without him - but time and circumstances never stand still. As you give time to circumstances, the previous - impossible - thing can no longer remain in your mind or you can't remain fixed in the previous thought.

    Life is very strange, whatever you think, time takes it away, to new times - to new thoughts.

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