Acceptability - Vs. - Competence

 Acceptability - Vs - Competence

Competences you can grip with some time or it is very much under your control. But Acceptability is not just a word it is hard to achieve or can be said to be a whole lots of luck.

A competence is the product of effort - competence is possible if you start with a destination. Competence can benefit you or remain stuck.

But Acceptability is not a product of effort or a limitation of try/action - it is a result of the whole structure or the appearance or appearance of the result of everything in life. The complex it is to achieve, the simple it is to get lost in behavior.

Fear of loss of competence is very rare and it is not reduced or lost but variable. The competence you have is dependent on social demand, the less demand-the less the range of competence.

And acceptability is not a social demand—it is a result of life. Many highly competence people do not get acceptability - on the other hand, there is no acceptability person who does not have competence. All acceptability persons have Competence – guaranteed!

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Those who can do without me.......

Those who can do without me - I can do without them.

We are social creatures, so we need each other in everything. In society, everyone has to move together, return, and settle down in social or family activities and complement each other.

Society is not created alone, it is created through the combined efforts of people. Similarly, in a family, everyone needs to be connected to each other. Since we cannot or cannot live alone, it is impossible.

In society, each person's thoughts and functions are different - no one is the same as everyone else - but the thing about similarity is that everyone needs everyone else. This is our traditional rule. There is no way to go outside this rule.

We find that if we want to live together, we have to tolerate small faults and make concessions.

Objections arise when the willingness to make concessions decreases or reduce - we find that even in small matters, we ruin the relationship or stop moving forward.

Now the thing is, I will give concessions but no one will give concessions to me. This is not tolerable - so I have to go beyond my satisfaction and say, "I will continue to do without those who can do without me."

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Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but............

Life is very diverse, not evenings pass – but yet years pass.

    Our life is full of histories. Different people create different histories. Each person's histories are different. Our knowledge or thinking, due to their nature, cannot accept bad things or bad situations.

    And whenever we fall into such a situation, time becomes a matter of great measure.

    Our love - love is of different kinds in different situations. Some things or loves seem to be impossible to live without or cannot be lived without.

    Such thoughts make it seem like time will not pass without him.

    But after he leaves, years pass by without us even realizing it. So it is true that nothing in this world is permanent - neither illusion nor wealth.

    We sometimes feel like it's impossible to live a single moment without him - but time and circumstances never stand still. As you give time to circumstances, the previous - impossible - thing can no longer remain in your mind or you can't remain fixed in the previous thought.

    Life is very strange, whatever you think, time takes it away, to new times - to new thoughts.

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Everything changes with age, I used to be stubborn, now I....

 

👽Everything changes with age, I used to be stubborn, now I am patient.

    𐑱Age is like that makes you understand reality, those who once gave knowledge now expect me to give knowledge or what kind of knowledge I have.

    📏Our lives are bound by a frame of age, here time will tell how much you or have grown or what my role will be now.

    🌅What I used to insist on when I was minor, now others insist on me, this is the study of age. From the frame of our age, has to reach the role of severs time in several part.

    Å_At once time I wanted from others, now others want from me - because all ages change. When what has to be done is not bearable, you will fall into the trap of being neglected or ignorant.

    🎯As people grow older, their desires, demands, rights, speech, etc. all have to change. This is fate or traditional rules and has to be accepted, there is no chance to stand against it or even to make a story, its inherent quality is patience which gives perfection to a person.

   🔖That's why it is said that I used to be stubborn, but now I am patient. Humans are very strange, the same body-mind-name, just a lot of changes due to time.

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The fewer the demands, the more beautiful ......

The fewer the demands, the more beautiful life becomes: 

    🏩We love what is beautiful or good, but we have very little known of how this beauty will continue.

    🪡The truth here is that the less your and my needs are, the more beautiful or organized life will be.

    🚢Supply associated with demand increases for this frustration, and at the same time, the beauty of it starts to lose its form.

   💓 We accept the idea of ​​beauty, but we are not really making attention to how this beauty will continue.

    💜💘Just as the creation of needs has been happening since the beginning of the world, so has the emergence or arrival of beauty. Beauty takes on a permanent form or position only when your needs are specific.

    💌Demand is a basic element that will always be present in human life. But the question is, how successfully has demand been controlled?

    ❤You-I will increase the demand and make it beautiful and desirable-it is somewhat impossible.

    💍One complements the other. When one increases, the other decreases.

    💕This need or relationship of beauty with your thoughts.

    ⏩⏪If you can control yourself up to a certain point, beauty will like you - beauty will be come to you.

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Can you tell me why people lose.....? ......

 

Can you tell me why people lose? - Carelessly.

    💕Every person in the world wants to be loved by their loved ones. There is no end to demand in our lives. Every person has their own pathway - this demand. And people like to live-care well or like to be loved.

    🂶We basically do not give importance to the things or people that we find easily or do not want to give importance to them.

    🍹At the beginning of life, we want to be with real people or have them as friends. It is certain that life remains incomplete without friends-friendship or relationship.

    ⏩Just as a chapter of life cannot be started again once it ends, a friendship cannot be started again fully once it ends or has ended. This is a fact of life.

    👌We often find someone with great difficulty - or we find them. After getting it right, it seems that there is no more obligations or consequence in the measure or matter - the matter is not like that -No matter how hard you try to find someone, you need to maintain a consistent relationship with them by doing certain things regularly - to maintain the relationship.

    🚠But we lose it through-carelessness. Care is not that difficult, but due to losing focus or take care-carelessness comes. So we can say that people lose their loved ones or closed ones through-carelessness.

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Don't let people understand your.....

    📛    Don't let people understand your bad times – People’s life is a combination of good and bad. As in life there are many times to feel good - just as there are many times to feel bad. Now it's about what to do/or do at what time.

    🙅    People will know about the good times whether you share them or not - that's the reality. So there is nothing special here or nobody will get a chance to give any trouble.

    🔱    Now let's hope about the bad times - but the best idea is not to share bad times or bad situations with anyone. Because the scale of suffering will increase too much.

    🏇    Because by not extending a hand of support to your side in your bad times or in bad situations, they will remind you again and again that you were not born for good in society or that bad is for you - it will encourage bad.

    🔐And taking chances will help you - but being real will make you worse - so don't let anyone understand the bad times.

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There is no reason to be upset - because nothing........

    👴There is no reason to be upset - because nothing has happened in your life that hasn't happened before:

   🎢 Any event suddenly makes us think or thought, either gives us satisfaction or dissatisfaction or gives us happiness or pain. But the most important thing is that these are a common rule.

   📌 No event-fact in the world is new. One or more similar events-facts have occurred in previous eras or years - perhaps the scope or nature or scenario of the events has changed over time.

    🔨But such incidents- events have happened before.

    🌋So there is nothing to be upset about or to think deeply about, nor is there anything to be overly enthusiastic or overly naïve about - this is a reflection or image of the past.

    📌One thing that is certain about all events is that this event has happened before and there was a proper solution to it.

    🐧The solution may not be known to us – but a solution is possible. There will be a decent solution.

    👌We break down in our general life at the slightest - we become disappointed - we lose hope - it's not that big of a deal - the solution will come. Just as the solution has happened before.

   🙈 Life should be allowed to go on as it is, you cannot stop it - the wisdom thing is to always be ready to find a solution or an alternative.

    🎠It is important to firmly accept that all events are a reflection of the past or before- Life must move forward.

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Everything is not as easy as we see..

🛀Everything is not as easy as we see dream: 

   🌺Our dream or like to dream every moment - there is no time limit. But it is also true that people live or grow with dreams. This is our tradition or habit.

    🚑 The question here is, is it as easy to realize dreams as it is to see them? Dreams appear or appear to us unexpectedly. There is no obstacle or prohibition to seeing these dreams.

    🚑 🐠 This is a dream that has been going on since our ancestors. But the point is, it is a matter of easy and difficult. The right dream is the one that turns a dream into reality.

    ✨yourself and climbing the ladder of dreams is a chapter of time and hardship. Therefore, there must be a vision of reality along with dreams. We do not want to see such dreams - which are really impossible to realize from the present position. This is where the practice of knowledge comes in. We have to step away from dreams that are not ours.

    🎋 But again, the dream that is possible for me but it is not acceptable to give up due to time and hard work. Here, the satisfaction is in trying your best to make the dream a reality - it cannot be given up. So it is not as easy as our dream.

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Everything is not as easy as we see dream: -

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A hand full of trust is much more valuable than.....

 🌃 A hand full of trust is much more valuable than a hand full of money:-

    💆Trust is a priceless asset in life, it takes a lot of effort to gain trust, but there is no effort to break trust. This is not the true symptom of a human being.

    💲Everyone has some or all of their money, and it can be spent in any way they want. On the other hand, not everyone is trustworthy or can be trusted.

    📈 Trust is a priceless asset in life, trust in yourself is born after many struggle. You are a believer, to achieve this you have to become a combination of many qualities - which is very difficult.

    🚌 It is better not to run with unbelievers, even if they have money - the fall down is very near at you. Believers, even if they don't have money, are very valuable and respected.

    ╫ There is no opportunity or possibility to walk alone in this general life. One has to trust someone or the other. To establish that trust, one needs a believing person. Unbeliever and ineligible are the same thing.

    👫 Trust is the pride of man who has only light and no darkness.

The word trust is very small but the meaning is very deep or detailed.

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Fondness and fascination are like a spider's web - once you ....

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       🍟🙋Fondness and fascination are like a spider's web - once you get caught up in it, it is very difficult to get out:

    🏡When we learn about fondness, we want to become a slave or fondness is a house in our life. A house that we can enter and cannot get out of. Fondness is often the cause of harm - the greater the fondness, the greater the amount of deception.

   💙 Fondness is a habit that people lose - relationships are lost, but fondness is never lost. Fondness has no adjective that we can always catch in the trap of fondness - many times fondness's people are lost before fondness is over.

    🌺Many people believe that due to environmental conditions, they are subject to fondness. If they could overcome fondness, they might be much better off.

    Love needs fondness to survive - and it needs excuses to leave. You have to be careful that where there is fondness, you have no value to me, you have to remove yourself from there.

    💎If you do not get yourself entangled in the web of fondness, then you will not be able to live well. Fondness is very strange and you cannot tell when it will come and knock on the door.

    Ɗ📔The most dangerous disease in the world is called fondness, so before getting entangled in fondness, you should keep in mind its tolerance.

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If you are trying to achieve your dreams - you should......

If you are trying to achieve your dreams - you should not neglect time:

    Everyone sees dreams and even dream them - but how many can reach their dreams? Yes, those who do not neglect time can.

    Man is greater than his dreams, if he uses his time properly. Our work or journey begins from dreams. A man without dreams is like a boat without a helmsman - there is no edge - he immediately goes astray.

    Dreams are the means of survival of man. He who does not have dreams but lives -in vain.

    Dreams are not to be shared - but they must be followed or acted upon. One must keep trying until one reaches the very last step of one's dream. One must remember that as difficult as it is to climb up - falling down is not as difficult - falling down is very easy.

    Take control of time, don't let time control you. Time's work has to be done on time. Remember that the stairs you are riding are no longer the same stairs as before.

    Time is a wonderful thing - it will hype you but it will not even tell you when it has hyped you. Time is your friend - not your enemy - if you value time, time will take you to the highest level in a moment - without any demands.

    Manage time like a dream - Don't manage your dream like time. Time is a great friend of neglect. So if you are trying to reach your dream - don't neglect time:-

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